God is real.
God is Love.
Love is God.
If you want to know God, practice love, to the best of your understanding.
The more you truly love, the more you and God will come to know each other.
For a guideline, try 1 Corinthians 13:4-7

"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast,
it is not proud.It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking,
it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."